What does Ravaged mean to Elise Graves? It means hard subjection, intense discipline & incredible orgasms. It means pain, humiliation & ecstasy. What does ravaged look like? It looks like thick, red welts across her thighs & butt from caning; like thin stripes across her back from whip. & how does ravaged feel for Elise? That is easiest one. To her it feels like dream come true...